Most of the authentic women that I know, even those Ba Poks sexually challenged women
are very very kan chiong about their wedding. The list of preparations on their TO DO List seems endless but IMO… is repetitive tasks LOLX.
Why? Eg…
1) Must have nice nails.
2) Must have nice toe nails artwork
3) Maintain good skin or constant regular facial to improve skin tone
4) Maintain good skin or constant regular facial to improve skin complexion
5) Maintain good skin or constant regular facial to improve skin texture
Item 3-4-5 already is Repetitive liao Lor!
above and below are real life accounts from some of my gfs…
6) Lose weight…5kg
7) Need to lose more weight.. maybe another 2 more kg to fit in the killer corset.
8) Need to grow long hair for nice hairdos…(This one can control meh???)
9) Selecting venue….
10) Selecting food
11) Selecting gown
12) Must look good on that day!! (in my opinion, is a repeat of item 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8)
13) And so on and on…..
For the guys , maybe is just one on their list and is notably the most important.
1) WHERE IS THE MONEY! Find It! LoLX
People always say, and even today Flying Dutchman commented.
“Man are nothing but just a Prop during wedding”
Sounded so wrong… My man is not a prop leh..
I do not want my man to be just the Prop. I want him to shine and also receive a lot of attention.
Who said wedding are just for women? Tsk tsk… I know men are equally as HIAO !
To name a few – Marvin, Martivinti, Allah is great…….
If die die have to be a prop. I must make my man to be world no 1 best prop.
Disclaimer! I’m not saying I don’t give 2 or 1 hoot about my looks and YES, I do agree that looking good is one of the “must” happened thing… after all who enjoys going to wedding dinners to see
?????????The no1 unwanted man on earth will probably still want and insist to stay single if this was his bride…Lolx…. (God..forgive me…)
So where does that leave me if the above are not my top priorities?
Knowing myself… I want to have fun… (Cyndi Lauper – Girls just wanna have fun…oh girl just wanna have fun!)I want to have so much fun that I will regret or even hate myself for ruining this (very special) relationship with my man. It’s not about how glam I am going to look that day or how EX the table is going to cost or to my friends (afterall they are the ones to give the angbaos! lolx) it’s about creating that special day between us that will deeply be imprinted in our memories. Even when we grow old and wither(or die)…I hope this special day will still amuse us for the youth and stupidity we used to have.
By the way, you guys have no idea how retard my bf can be at times, I am officially declaring I have met my worthy opponent!
So...
Do you think if a couple who were married for 10-20 years…give a shit on how fucking beautiful/handsome they was before and how LAVISHLY and Glamorously they held their wedding? Even if per table was SGD10,000++?
Sorry to say, nope. They don’t give a shit. If money can buy u happiness, that was not true happiness.
To realize my own beliefs and wants, I’m planning some stuff that will require a lot of courage from myself and my husband to be.
No… :P
I am not going to reveal any info yet… because…nothing is finalized yet.
But I know it’s the biggest challenge I am giving to my man to tie the knot with me.
(Trust me, he was pretty upset and agitated when I proposed my thoughts..)
After much persuasion and angry distorted looks from me,
He finally surrendered with his white undies...
Even if the things I wanna do are ISO International (www.sgbrides.com) standards (Who cares…) …he had proved something to me.
He will always stand by me.
What else can I still ask for?
So baby if you are reading this… Thank you for all the good things/times u brought into my life and shit you still for the times u made me so angry that I almost want to pee in your pillow just to get back at u.
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